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Reverse Mortgage Myths, Debunked

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The bank does not take your home, your heirs are protected, and you are not signing away your family’s future.

Reverse mortgages carry more myths than almost any product in finance, and those myths keep people from a tool that could improve their retirement. Let us clear the air, one by one.

Myth: “The bank takes my home.”

False. You keep the title and you own your home. The lender holds a lien, just as with any mortgage. You can sell whenever you like, and you decide what happens to the property.

Myth: “My children will be stuck with the debt.”

False. A HECM is non-recourse. Your heirs will never owe more than the home is worth. They inherit the home and choose to keep it — by repaying the balance — or to sell it and keep any remaining equity. They are never personally on the hook for a shortfall.

Myth: “I could be forced out of my home.”

False, as long as you meet the basic terms — pay your property taxes and insurance, maintain the home, and live there as your primary residence. Meet those and the home is yours to stay in.

Myth: “It is a last resort for desperate people.”

Increasingly false. Financial planners now use reverse lines of credit as a deliberate retirement strategy — a buffer to avoid selling investments in a down market, a bridge before claiming Social Security, or simply a standby reserve that grows over time.

The real question is not whether reverse mortgages are “good” or “bad.” It is whether this particular tool fits your particular situation. That is a conversation, and we are glad to have it honestly — including telling you when the answer is no.

Common questions

Will a reverse mortgage affect my Social Security or Medicare?
Generally no. Reverse mortgage proceeds are loan advances, not income, so they typically do not affect Social Security or Medicare. Need-based programs like Medicaid can be affected by how you hold the funds, which is worth planning around — a good reason to talk it through.
Is the money I receive taxable?
Reverse mortgage proceeds are generally not taxable income, because they are loan advances rather than earnings. As with anything tax-related, confirm the specifics for your situation.

See where you stand.

A few quick questions, one real answer — with no credit pull to start. Apply to find out what you qualify for.